The first time I bought and used a chastity device I was in Germany and my sometimes dominant girlfriend was at home in her country. Panic attack barely covers it. It was an overwhelmingly panicking experience that left my gf annoyed by the panicked lunatic I turned into. I tried to wear it overnight but I bought one so big that my erection actually forced it off. It was quite a comedic end to the debacle which helped defuse the intensity of it.
But I kept going back to the solution that a chastity lock promised: control of my orgasms by someone else. I bought many, many devices mainly from china on eBay. I also even tried to make my own!
Self locking is lame for, kind of, obvious reasons. One can find a mistress cam girl online that will play the chastity game, but for all their sweet sincerity, at the end of the day, most of these girls are so busy you’d be luck if they remember who you are let alone that you are wearing a chastity device that they have to “allow” you to take off.
Experiments with remote locking solutions were barmy. Buying key safes with combinations, changing the combination while a key holder looks at the dials via Skype and you try not to. All very silly solutions too clunky to fit the experience of key ownership.
I’ve a high libido and sensitive sexual accelerator. This resulted in a lifestyle heavily dominated by looking for and taking part in sexual activity. Over the years porn robbed much of my energy. I know this, and many reading this will attest to it. Overuse of porn gives you an ever shorter energy boost followed by an ever longer malaise. Its bullshit. Its wrong. Its bad.
Many girls are open to male chastity, I think. The idea of definitively owning that troublesome male member is appealing. But outside of a normal live in relationship the practicalities of key holding dilute its effectiveness and appeal.
Remote key holding is a, sort of, industry. As such, one can easily find a professional key holder by searching online. Buts it’s a very specific sort of fetish this. And almost at the opposite end of the spectrum to key holding within a relationship.
This chastity key locking system has allowed me to find a middle ground - where I am now - in a long distance relationship yet my partner is able to take full, unequivocal ownership of my cock all the time. This is immensely powerful. Immensely.
I realise that I’m lucky to find someone with the emotional maturity and loving interest to adopt the role of key holder but I know that the relationship we have developed would have been impossible without Keyholder Online's idea.
She has been able to increase the duration of my chastity and change my relationship with her for the better. Life has become richer. Work has become better. Partnership with her has become more intense, loving and, of course, faithful. Porn is almost gone, except where she permits it. And she is in the driving seat of our relationship experimenting constantly with her ownership and control.
This is a fulfilling life for a submissive man. And it is transformative on the energy front and in general because of the wholesome benefit loyalty and commitment give your heart and soul.
So, thank you Keyholder Online.
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