When you hear that “click”. The locking ritual.

When you hear that “click”. The locking ritual.

I figured I’d use the invitation to write a testimonial to describe the comparison between the in-person key holder locking ritual and the remote locking ritual with Chastity Lock cause I have experienced both.

The latter took a bit of time to perfect. Both my key holder and I enjoyed quite a relaxed and informal path to adopting this ritual that we both enjoyed.

Firstly though, this “ritual” is more than just a meaningless custom. It's important. In the real world it's a key power play but in the virtual world, where your key holder is remote, it is about verification of chastity that cannot be circumvented.

The male that needs chastity will often times be one that succumbs to temptation. Temptation to watch porn, meet another girl or visit a massage parlour. And temptation is a weird thing. When succumbing to it it can feel like the most logical, non-issue there is. That is temptations most powerful attribute and a locking ritual can ensure that your male doesn’t cheat.

I would go so far to say never believe that its locked until its verified. If you slacken the rules, one day he will stray and that is the slippery slope.

The click of the lock, whether your key holder is looking into your submitted eyes as she does it or while you are preparing a short video to send to your remote key holder is a significant submissive act critical to the process and lifestyle of chastity.

That pressing of the lock is the door closing to your rights, your ownership, your control, your ability to touch your cock and pee standing up. It is the sound of power being handed over or power being taken away.

It's easier to say “no” to a remote keyholder than to her face in the real world. Actually, I often did. And my Mistress had the maturity and authenticity to roll with it and when I finally obeyed she showed me the consequence of sloppy submission. Over time she has trained me to obey and appreciate the locking ritual.

If I could define one difference between remote and in-person keyholding I’d say it is the sense of gratitude. In person there is a definitive dominance to the act. But remotely where you have to do it yourself there is, at least for me, a great sense of gratitude that this partner in your sexual life has helped enable you to submit.